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With that being said, let’s discuss his absolute asinine reasons for not dating single moms. I’ve seen plenty of men share this blog post, saying “wow, so true!
But the fact of the matter remains that the kids are here, and they need to be cared for. I don’t expect anyone to run up and save me, because as far as I’m concerned, I can save myself, thank you very much. We all don’t need captains for our boats, we’re not all sinking. Once again, that sky- is-always-falling-so-she-can-have-attention type of woman is like that with or without kids. Apparently we all just want to use a guy to get our child’s father back or to just get free meals and gifts. He brought an airport carousel full of luggage to saddle one group of women with, but apparently we’re the ones with magazine amounts of issues. James seems to associate a horrible pathetic, pitiful, unattractive, and fat life for single mothers.
A woman without a child has much more freedom to be available for you.
An unmarried mother should put her child(ren) first.
Also, my friend’s ex had a kid that always wanted to sleep in his mom’s bed and that would be a problem for me. I want all the perks that come with a grown-up relationship.” “A lot of my friends are divorced and one guy even has a kid after a one-night stand.
Once upon a time, I was on Twitter lamenting about not finding love. Men, please stop judging women if they have children.
I went out with a girlfriend in Montclair, NJ, to a fun place called Just Jakes. It was a little deceiving, sure, but I thought telling the guys I was a single mom would influence their answers—and I wanted raw thoughts.
That child does not need to compete with you, and you don’t need to compete with that child.Whether each man I date knows it or not, I’m testing him from day one. In other words, he’s not looking to settle down or meet your kid any time soon.“He's insecure and desperately needs to demonstrate control.” So what if he ordered an eighty-dollar bottle of wine at dinner and drives a nice car? That’s just the type of female you attract, my dear sir. Emotionally unavailable because her feelings are invested in her children and the children’s father. Yes, my children’s fathers did not turn out to be what I anticipated. There’s never a good day in the life of a single mother? I wake up to two beautiful kids who I love unconditionally, and they love me the same. If my only purpose is to be here for my children, that’s good enough for me. If she wasn’t before her children, most likely she isn’t now. You don’t have to think so, because it’s not meant for you, to be quite honest. The simple fact: she is taking care of her children….which is “taking responsibility for her actions.” Now as for always putting the situation on the “no good man,” yes, plenty of single mothers say that, but that does not describe EVERY single one of us. Because his whole blog was not the slightest bit dramatic, but I digress. We have great days and bad days like everyone else.
To say any man would be her last priority just because clearly you were made to be a last priority by someone is ridiculous. Hell, I messed up with my choices in fathers, TWICE! Again, that just has to be the type of woman he gets. I didn’t bring everyone my problems before my kids, I don’t bring them to everyone now. “A single mother has no interest in a man she’s dating.” The hurt just oozes from this statement. James, I am 26, have two kids with two different men, I’m 5′ 7″, 230 lbs, and currently am a cashier at retail store and a front desk agent at a hotel. I bet money that the number of men who lie about how many children they have, outnumbers the women. If I am already “never available” as he’s previously stated, I don’t have time to waste. Everyone has baggage, children are not a requirement for it.