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I had some minor crushes here and there but nothing ever panned out. But it didn’t last long, we broke up just a few months later because we were just at very different places in our lives.
I didn’t date in high school because I was homeschooled and we didn’t live in West Virginia. I went to a private, mostly female, Christian college.
And he’s coming from a place where men are The Supreme Commander over All Things– in the church, in the home, in the workplace.
Each makes the typical statement that they were mistakes and they’ve asked God for forgiveness and moved on. My female friends keep telling me, “It’s not that big of a deal, and no girls over 20 are virgins.
Unfortunately, as a potential husband, there is no option for me to “move on” beyond the . The fact they’ve had sex doesn’t change much.” But not only do I not believe them, there’s lots of scientific as well as biblical evidence for it being a big deal!
And that’s on top of the human feelings of betrayal, shame and dishonor of knowing your girl didn’t love you enough to not sleep with other men, as well as the mental images you’ll have for a lifetime of her being sexually active with her lovers. Honestly, though, the first thing that clues me in to this young man’s attitude is in the words “checking off the boxes.” He talks about all the things he’s done to ready himself for marriage– getting a job, settling down, all that. I encourage anyone who asks that waiting to seriously think about long-term relationships until you’re established can be a very good, healthy thing.
Feel free to go vomit into a bucket, or go scream into a pillow. Doesn’t make it the right circumstances for , but it can help. He’s waited until he’s more established to start looking.
Will they think ill of me as a bad woman who has two kids and go out with men?